how u think of others shows what a person u urself are

how u think of others shows what a person u urself are

the way u imagine others' intentions is to put urself in others' shoes. same action may rise from different intentions. before you have the full knowledge of all the factors that others consider when making a decision, which I highly doubt such full knowledge is even possible, the best shot is to assume the factors that you would consider. if u think others do that because of this, then it must be that u would do that because of this

I remind myself all the time that there might be another cause, keeping my mind open and staying honestly skeptic on most information sources. but that is sense, which is easier for me than sensibility, the nature assumed by women especially when regarding relationships.

if u don't like some particular characteristic of another person, it must be that u don't like that property on urself. if u really hates that character, it means u have it on urself, and u hate it on urself. otherwise, why would I care so much about others being like that? probably because it reminds u that u urself have similar problem.

Si Chen